Kunqabile ukuba ndilinganise oku, kodwa ezintlanu eziphezulu kule kliphu. Akubalulekanga kangako ukuba umahluko yobudala kunye nendoda eqolileyo uhlobo ilawula, kwaye akukho nokuba phambi kwabantu abangabaziyo - kodwa oku kuya kubhenela ngokuqinisekileyo nabani na ovulwa ngesondo ngeempahla. Kwade kwashushu.
Ngamanye amaxesha awufuni ukubaleka amahashe kakhulu. Xa uqala uvumela iqabane lakho ukuba liphumle, inkanuko yesini, ngoko amaxesha alandelayo ngokuqinisekileyo akayi kwala, okanye eze ngokwakhe.